I once believed that I was a dog person.
I also once believed that the equation to "happiness" was
definable,
achievable,
stable, and
practical. And I'm pretty sure that at some point in every one of our lives, we really, truly --with all of our heart and soul--
trust that society has built this concept of "happinesss" in order to protect us and teach us what is basic and important to live. And important in general.
But what not all people understand is that, unlike the highlighted adjectives and small icons above, Happiness is not obvious and the future is uncertain. Kind of like how it would be incorrect to say,
All skies are blue,
All grass is green,
All dogs are good
& all cats, are mean.
Yet, what's possibly the most interesting idea in all this, is that people actually
try to make
sense of human emotion, they try to make the uncertain understandable ...which is utter
nonsense. Below I have listed a few examples of the websites I came across in search of polls and surveys for Happiness. Yes, it is no surprise that most people after all do believe in my "happiness" equation-- "house, money, and education is survival."
http://www.stlouisfed.org/publications/re/articles/?id=1860
I must let you know, Dear Reader, I do myself have a home
(though very small) and money
(though only to live) and I am also fairly educated
(though never enough it seems). & of course I still do find these basic values important. I'm not as much of a savage as you are assuming, I hope. However, I'd like some one to prove to me how a home and money and education is fulfilling, truly bringing happiness at it's finest, without friendship, altruism, or love. As I feel, one of the greatest, most noticeably giving women of her time, Mother Teresa, once said:
"Loneliness is the most terrible poverty."
With that said, I leave you with a question I suppose-- what is your equation to happiness, or, what are the things that make you happy? And, if you were the writer of a dictionary, how would you define happiness for other people in a more universal way?
<3 M.